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“If it’s true that men and women can be ‘just friends’ then how come all cheaters first start out as ‘just friends?”

Oliver Markus Malloy


Like the above mentioned quote, there is no point in cheating and still carrying on in a relationship, as it really breaks the string of trust factor in a relationship for two individuals who are dating.

The mental agony of not being able to disclose the nature of discomfort with the partner, leads one to involve in illegal activities or seeing another person to see if their needs are being met with a new partner.

“Deceivers shall always be at the junction of double mindedness.”

Ernest Agyemang Yeboah


In order to cross the turbulent sea of suspicions, one must be very observant of the actions of the partner. In a not very obvious manner, but in subtle ways. Below mentioned are a couple of tips to watch out for, if you are slightly suspicious about the loyalty of your partner.

  1. If the partner is making extra efforts to groom than lately, then there is something funny on the side
  2. If the partner hesitates to make eye contact with you while going out to restaurants and if his/her eyes keep wandering around looking out for others and ignores you, then something is definitely not right up his sleeve
  3. If the partner shows less interest in you or starts abusing you all of a sudden in order to gain your disinterest purposely, then it might also be a sign of infidelity
  4. If there are strange new hobbies which are quite unexplained, then also something might be troublesome
  5. If the partner is not comfortable attending phone calls around you, you can definitely suspect fishiness
  6. If the dating partner, disappears out of sight for a lengthy number of days and stays unreachable without any valid reason, then also it’s best to leave the relationship as one does not deserve to be treated that way
  7. If the person does not wish to share details about his personal whereabouts, it also means that the person is possibly looking at somebody else
  8. If there are unwanted long phone or video calls happening in secret mode, it could also definitely signal infidelity
  9. Another major symbolic event could be that, when the person is not able to give direct answers when asked to confide if they are cheating or not
  10. The inability to take you out to certain places suddenly, might also signal that the person is cheating, and hence not able to visit these places with you
  11. When they pretend to be too busy to notice small changes in you, it might also be a sign of suspicion
  12. Sudden mood changes might also be an indication of cheating
  13. If they are unwilling to share their phone with you to show you something, it also definitely is a clear indication of something brewing up
  14. If there is a lack of intimacy, avoiding your touches, putting their hands away when coming in contact with you might also be a signal
  15. If they contract a STD, its a confirmation of infidelity in all means

These are just a couple of things in which one can identify if a partner is cheating in a relationship or a date. And there is no point in carrying things forward with such people who show clear signs or traits of being in a relationship. The best leg to put forward in such cases will be to best confront them about their suspicious patterns of behaviour and ask them to come clear about it and then it depends on the partner who isnt cheating to decide whether to give them another chance or to break off this lifeless relationship for both the unhappy relationship. There can be only two people in a relationship and both sides have to work equally to make the hands clap together.

Therefore, it is best to ask the partner about their concerns and try to resolve it with them ASAP or break away at the earliest and try to get better lives of peace for both the persons involved in the relationship itself. True to the saying that goes this way,

“Never cheat on someone who is good to you. Karma is a bitch.”

—Surgeo Bell


  • Chloe

    The quote emphasizes the crucial aspect of trust in a relationship. Cheating not only betrays trust but also damages the very foundation of a partnership. Honesty and openness should always prevail to maintain a healthy relationship.

  • Ella

    Communication is the key to a successful relationship. If suspicions arise, it’s important to have an open conversation with your partner. Addressing concerns directly can either strengthen the relationship by resolving issues or lead to a necessary break for both individuals.

  • Avery

    The behavior shifts mentioned can be red flags for potential infidelity. Trust is sacred in a relationship, and when it’s eroded, it’s vital to reevaluate the connection. Ultimately, both individuals deserve honesty and respect in their relationships.

  • Hazel

    Deception is a double-edged sword, cutting both ways. Observing behavioral changes can unveil a partner’s hidden actions. Trust your instincts and choose transparency. Karma always finds its way, emphasizing the importance of honesty and loyalty in relationships.

  • Layla

    Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship. When doubt creeps in, it’s essential to address it openly. True partnership relies on mutual respect and faithfulness. Cheating undermines the very essence of love and leaves lasting wounds.

  • Jose

    The signs of a cheating partner can be subtle but significant. Trust your intuition and address changes in behavior. Honesty and loyalty are the building blocks of a strong relationship. Karma reminds us that our actions always have consequences.

  • Jordan

    Cheating is a breach of trust and integrity, causing deep emotional wounds. Recognizing the signs of infidelity is essential for self-preservation. Confronting the issue and choosing honesty can lead to healing and growth, either within the relationship or by moving forward independently.

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